just because you can, doesn’t mean you should ... even if you love the F word

just because you can, doesn’t mean you should ... even if you love the F word

One thing I’ve noticed about caregivers is how hard it is for them to let themselves be supported—even when they come to their yoga mat. “Oh, I don’t need that.” they say, waving away the prop setup I’ve suggested for them. “Let someone else use those blocks—I’m fine without them.” Oh, that loaded F word …

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my best advice for tackling your next big task (it's probably not what you think)

my best advice for tackling your next big task (it's probably not what you think)

You’re staring down a daunting task—a project that most would run from, like caring for a loved one through a serious illness. So you put your head down, hold your breath, and charge head-on into it, promising yourself that you’ll get back to your own life and come up for air when it’s all over. But soon you find yourself floundering, and you’re not sure you’ll ever be able to get to the other side. What do you do?

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6 tips (plus a bonus) for the unexpected caregiver

6 tips (plus a bonus) for the unexpected caregiver

Whether we tend to other people as part of our careers or not, if we have any sort of relationships at all (human or otherwise), we’ll all find ourselves in the role of caregiver at some point in our lives. And while every caregiving situation is unique, I was reminded of a few commonalities within the first few days of my husband’s recovery from his recent surgery during this National Family Caregivers Month …

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